We are working on the relationship between these two right now. When there is a two year old and a four year old in the house, we always have this problem. It just takes some time and work to get over this hump. Two year olds are bad at sharing, and four year olds are bad at being tolerant of not sharing well. The four year old also likes to boss around the two year old. Drew idolizes Isaac right now and seems to be on a power trip when it comes to Judah. It's good to see them playing so happily like this. No bossing or fighting over toys. Just smiles and laughter.
My husband and I were sitting in church before Mass shortly after we were confirmed into the Catholic Church. Both of our gazes drifted to a pew close by where a family filled up the whole pew. Granted it was one of the shorter pews, not a full length one. I can't remember who said it to whom, but one of us said, "I hope we fill up a pew with our family one day." We agreed it would be wonderful. And so that is what we're hoping for...a pew all our own.
People think they have to find their soulmate to have a good marriage. You get married, and after 20 years of loving, bearing and raising children, meeting challenges- then you'll have "created" your soulmate. -Diane Sollee